Today’s post is a little different. I want to talk about cultivating the right mindset, as fear and inaction affects book writers.
In my forthcoming book ‘20 Most-Asked Questions on Prosperity’, I give readers some positive framework examples and ideas to re-set their ways of thinking. To get back on track to my own goals, I talk about my use of a ‘letting go’ approach. Prior to this, I felt stuck.
But why let go of grudges, frustration and fear? Because it helps you handle stressful events and to implement a positive writer’s mindset.
Writes Richard Maloney:
The key to being Stress-Free and thriving under pressure, is through continual self-awareness and self-regulation. It’s about recognizing your thoughts and actively changing them where necessary.”
‘Stress Free’ – CoachingLife.com
Supporting the feelings of writers
It can be difficult to uncover the fears of book writers who work with me. At first I found it quite hard to give feedback in comments that would still uphold their pride and support learning. That’s why writing coaching is often better than editing for feedback, as it allows a bit more time to explain why a certain style might be better or how to improve by pointing out inconsistencies.
While it’s thought that 81% of Americans want to write a book, you can gauge this yourself. On the weekend, I went to a gathering of ladies over 45 and from different walks of life. Of the 12 creative people, three had written books and one wanted to write one. A few others probably harboured a desire for a legacy book.
I believe what stops most people from writing and finishing their book is a fear of judgement. It can be awkward enough to talk about a progressing work, but if a new writer gets the wrong feedback style it can shatter their confidence. I can also sense when someone is excusing away their abilities and prospects. The person might say “Oh, it’s probably not up to par yet” or “definitely not looking for it to become a bestseller” or “I know there will be few readers, I just enjoy writing”.
If this is you, be careful not to talk yourself into a dead end. Some writers’ works, with editing and the proper guidance, can become appropriate for approaching a publisher that’s right for them. Others need to fret less and experiment with writing styles more. After all, scientists do not come up with a fixed outcome and then mix their chemicals. They posit a hypothesis and take an open mind to what may happen. They note down all the things that happened and draw tentative conclusions based on chemistry theories.
This is good to remember as a writer. You turn your mind towards experimenting, learning, re-drafting and turn off the critical tap that says it’s not good enough. You cannot reach the right outcome for you without an open mind—so take that open mind and ask good questions.
You can also hire a book writing coach to help you progress and learn.
Questions to ask
How can I learn more about writing techniques?
What would make a better opener for this chapter, to create some drama?
What would (your writer hero) do?
Could this writing meet the requirements of Black Inc Books? Of Scribe Publications?
These publishers require writers to be experienced in writing for general readers, so include a list of publications, including shorter works. Academics or subject matter experts are best to approach a university press in their home state. Here is one clarion call:
“UQP is committed to publishing titles that advocate for environmental sustainability, and throughout 2024 we will be seeking adult fiction and non-fiction titles that address the climate crisis.”
One writer I know published his technical guide with a publication akin to the Dummies guides. So, think of what kind of publishers could want your work… or publish the book yourself with my handy course: Book Creation Self-Publish. You’ll also get lots of ideas for marketing your book on launch.
